What a simple and effective statement this is. Let me explain with an example: for me, a 90‑degree angle could represent a straight line, but for someone else, depending on their position, 180 degrees might seem like a straight line.

Right at the beginning of any conversation, I give the benefit of doubt: I am correct, and you are also correct. Nobody is wrong. This mindset avoids conflict and creates a beautiful “Grey area” position. As long as it doesn’t turn into a “Red” position, Grey remains powerful.

And I do so because I am my own responsibility. This realization allows me to accept the other person’s point while still sharing my own opinion in the same conversation. That balance is powerful—especially in a world where everyone seems at war, constantly trying to prove others wrong and themselves right. This approach offers relief, turning tension into understanding and disagreement into respect.

Key Benefits of This Statement

1. It gives you an extra edge, reminding your brain why you are in the conversation and what the expectations are.
2. It encourages the other person to respect your view. Remember, respect is earned, and this can be a cheat code in conversation.
3. The conversation stays constructive instead of turning into disagreement or misunderstanding.
4. At any point, you can gracefully exit the conversation, creating the illusion that both sides have agreed, without making the other person feel offended.
5. It is an extremely effective approach to achieve the outcome you desire, because both people remain at ground zero and feel aligned.

Just imagine: one statement in this article has given us words like extra edge, forces, cheat code, agreed, effective approach, outcome of choice, acceptance. That’s just one statement. Now imagine what it can do in a conversation.

Conclusion
It is an intentional shift made by the brain—one that falls under the category of a mindset shift. This change transforms conflict into understanding, disagreement into dialogue, and opposition into respect. Much like a ruler within their own realm, you command your words, shape your responses, and preserve the harmony of every exchange.